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Should You Be Having Sex During Your Period?
By Odunmorayo Oke 20 May 2024 | 2:54 pm Sex during menstruation is a topic that has long been covered up in myths, stigmas, and misconceptions. Despite the taboo surrounding it, period sex is a natural and normal part of many individuals' intimate lives. This article aims to provide an exploration of the considerations, benefits, risks, and tips associated with having sex during your…
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While period sex is generally safe, it does come with some considerations regarding infections:
STIs: There is a slightly higher risk of transmitting or contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs) during menstruation due to the presence of blood. Using protection, such as condoms, is crucial. According to Lauren Streicher, a clinical professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology, she says, “Any bodily fluid can carry HIV or [other] STIs, and [during your period], the cervix opens slightly, which might allow viruses to pass through.”
Alternative intimacy options during menstruation
1. Explore non-penetrative intimacy
You can also try out non-penetrative activities like massages, cuddling, and oral sex. They can be just as satisfying but without the mess. Get creative with your hands, lips, and whatever else floats your boat – let your imagination run wild.
2. Focusing on emotional connection
Alternatively, periods are a reminder to slow down and connect on a deeper level. Use this time to bond emotionally with your partner – share your feelings, watch cheesy rom-coms, or engage in pillow talk. Who needs rose petals when you have period panties, right?
This leads us back to the first question, should you be having sex on your period? Ultimately, the decision to engage in sex during menstruation is a personal one that should be based on your personal comfort and preference. Most importantly, communicate openly with your partner and consider using protection to guarantee a safe and enjoyable experience. There’s no right or wrong answer—just what feels right for you.
