Nollywood actress, Halima Abubakar, has urged ladies to desist from dating married men, saying leaving a quality life of being responsible with good moral virtues is the best life.
The renowned movie star, who took to her Instagram page to give the advice, said that ladies should not make the same mistake she made by dating someone else’s husband.
According to her, being a side chick to married men is morally wrong, but staying away from people’s husbands is a morally upright living.
She stressed that she did not want them to experience what she went through, therefore, relationships with married men should be avoided.
She expressed gratitude to fans and well-wishers, for their constant prayers, love, and encouragement, adding that they should live a life they would be proud of.
The actress added that having a side business was far better than being a side chick, and urged them to leave people’s husbands alone.
“Live a life you would be proud of.
“Thank you all for all the prayers and encouragement and love.
“I am on a new part to a new life; strive to be new and stay safe and morally upright.
“No do side chick o…see u soon. Find a side business and leave people’s husband.
”Don’t make the mistake I made…The idea is to be morally right, ” she wrote.
Abubakar is a model, actress, television personality, philanthropist, and multiple award-winning member of the Nollywood industry.
Halima Abubakar and Apostle Suleman
Since July 2022, Abubakar and Apostle Suleman have been having a running battle over a love affair that the apostle denied ever took place.
Among numerous allegations, the actress said Mr. Suleman was behind an unnamed life-threatening ailment that plagued her for years and that he reneged on his promise to marry her.
In September 2022, the actress and her siblings called Mr. Suleman out on social media, accusing him of being behind her illness.
In his response, Mr. Suleman issued a cease-and-desist notice to the actress while asking for a published apology or facing legal action.
This did not deter the actress, who continued to call him out on Instagram, claiming they had an affair.
This caused the preacher, through his legal representatives, Ephesus Lex Attorneys & Solicitors, to bring Abubakar before a judge, J. Enobie Obanor, of the High Court of the Federal Capital Territory in the Abuja Judicial Division.
Despite the court order for her to appear in court for the commencement of the case on the 25th of March, the film star has granted an interview in which she made startling revelations.
In a live session with talent manager Samuel Olatunji, Abubakar alleged that she got pregnant by the preacher who promised to marry her.
She said Mr. Suleman cried when she lost the pregnancy.
“When I lost the pregnancy, he was crying; you would think it’s real because he was shedding tears that I lost his child,” she said.
She also revealed that she got pregnant for Mr. Suleman three times and that the last one caused complications, which made her take medications.
“It’s crazy. I got pregnant three times for him. The last one got me bleeding. I had to take tablets to stop it. I bled for five years. I just came out of a long hiatus.
“I’ve been in a spiritual battle, so I just came back. The blood just stopped rushing. You won’t believe it. I wasn’t seeing my period because I don’t know which is my period,” she added.
In a clip from another interview, Abubakar alleged that the cleric slept with her while bleeding.
“He was sleeping with me even while I was bleeding. That’s the dangerous part, and he told other people, that’s why.
“The whole thing took me unaware because I was naive and not a spiritual person. Even when I’m on my period, he does that,” the actress stated.
