Kefas fell in love with a single mother who still had feelings for her ex. Even though they had broken up, she kept meeting her ex. Kefas believed she was cheating on him with the ex, and what shocked him the most was that her family supported her actions. They welcomed the ex and treated the ex the same way they treated him. This left Kefas confused, wondering if he was the real boyfriend or if he was just being played.
“I had a girlfriend who was a single mother. She was so pretty and curvy, if she didn’t tell you she had had a child, you wouldn’t know. She had this calm innocent look, she could even pass for a virgin. She was the real meaning of the phrase, don’t judge a book by its cover. She looked calm from the outside, but when I came close to her and we started dating, I realized she wasn’t what she portrayed; she was a player, sex-addict, and narcissist.
“My experience was bad. As a matter of fact, I almost couldn’t find my way out of the toxic relationship with her ex. She was cheating on me with her ex to the extent that she made it known to me. Even though her family accepted me over her ex, the confusing part was that her family would welcome me and also welcome the ex on different occasions.
“The worst came when she had to take her ex’s call during an intimacy with me. After that incident, I didn’t know my stand in the relationship, whether I was the main guy or the ex and her family were aware of the deadly game their daughter was playing.
“She’s evil, and the family in general are evil. They all did me dirty and made me dislike women and regret knowing them. It got to a point we had to break up. She still wanted to visit me sneakily after the break-up because she was so addicted to sex. She was a dream killer because she had already given up on Life. The situation was not productive.
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“Although I truly loved her, she played hide-and-seek games with me until she made it clear that she was a player.
“She was a narcissist and that almost ruined my entire life and she didn’t even regret her actions. She never apologized, no remorse. She didn’t pity me despite all the financial support I gave her and her family. She once spent my hard-earned money to visit her ex and spent time with him and then came back to me as if nothing had happened. I will say women in general are evil due to my previous experience. They are manipulators. And most of these women are diabolical and their parents are using voodoo powers to manipulate men to be attracted to their daughters.”
Dear Kefas, I understand that you are hurt, it feels bad when you love someone genuinely and the love is not reciprocated. However, it’s wrong to begin to see all women to be narcissists or manipulators. She did you dirty, I guess it’s her loss and it also shows you are capable of love. I can assure you there is a beautiful soul out there waiting to embrace your love, so don’t close your heart to love. It’s obvious you have not healed, you can take your time to heal, and while at it always have an open mind. Remember, positivity attracts positivity, when you see women as good, and you are good too, you will attract good ones.
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