Premarital sex can deny you good marriage
Temilolu Okeowo
Dear Ma,
I know it’s late but I’ve been meaning to send this message. I was at your birthday last year, it was also the first time I met you in person. I remember when you told us to dance forward after taking us through a prayer session telling us to expect a miracle before your next birthday.
At that time, I had almost given up. I graduated from university in 2015/2016 and I didn’t get any job. I waited and prayed, but people left me; even a relationship that looked like it had potential ended because he said I did not have any skills.
I held onto those prayers on your birthday and prayed before your next birthday, I have evidence. God did it. I got a job after almost nine years. It feels so surreal. I resumed in April this year. Thank you for being such a blessing to me. I’m so grateful for the gift of you to our generation.
Nifemi
Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I’m a 24-year-old lady in a serious relationship which is altar-bound from all indications. My boyfriend and I are so in love with each other and of course, we’ve been engaging in sexual intercourse. However, a lot of times when I’m all by myself, my spirit tells me I’m headed for trouble marrying him. Our goal is to get married in 2025. I’d like you to please address this ma.
Miss T.
Dear Miss T.
I thank God for what may be a prodding by the spirit of God. May I plead with you in your interest to stop engaging in sexual intercourse with your boyfriend right away so you won’t land yourself into a transaction that could suddenly make you wish you were never born? I have enumerated the advantages of chastity over time but please take note of the following and let it guide your thoughts and actions.
How are you so sure he’s not sent into your life by the devil to block the man who’ll give you heaven on earth and change your story?
Premarital sex could make you end up with Lucifer himself and even the world’s No. 1 G.O. could tell you he’s the right person for you. Why? Because your spirits have intertwined and intermingled and he can see all of him in you. Sexual intercourse can bond you so much that even when he’s making life unbearable for you, you don’t want to leave him and keep going back to him. This is a very serious matter! Hmm…
You don’t know the type of battles awaiting you in your marriage emanating from your husband’s ancestry which is going to mingle with yours. Neither do you know the type of battles that will arise from strange women or even his mother – what if she can’t have any other woman competing with her in her son’s life? And other diverse battles that could threaten your peace and shake your entire existence.
I could go on and on. My question is, which power would you have to fight a whole satanic network/ armoury/gang-up when your life including your virtues, spiritual strength, immunity etc. has been fragmented over time and scattered – in fact gone with the wind as a result of premarital sex especially if you’ve had multiple sex partners over time?
And did you even know that a contaminated/polluted destiny i.e. one that has had a legion of strange spirits transferred into it through sex, attracts so much filth and evil men? Hmm…I know what I’m talking about!
Also, did you know there are so many people in the world today who are experiencing “hell on earth” and whose destinies have been badly messed up beyond repairs because they got into the wrong marriage while some were unfortunately not equipped enough for the type of union they were getting into? Haaaa……may that not be your portion in Jesus name.
Stop sleeping with that guy and surrender your spirit, soul and body to God, please. You have nothing to lose at all. What he’s giving you can’t compare with the wonderful wonder God has planned for you. You never know what God is trying to save you from in future.
For the fact that your sisters or friends engaged in sexual intercourse with those they’re presently married to and seem to be having a ball in life doesn’t mean that would be your case. Who knows maybe your relationship with this guy is what would deny you marrying a man that suits your destiny perfectly and one whose coming together with you would ignite the fire of your glory and announce you to the world!
You had best retrace your steps, my dear. Shame the devil. Let God fire you up, open your eyes to see what’s ahead of you, show you the way to go and arm you for a lifetime of “heaven on earth” and the best sex ever.
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Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a Secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576.
